Studying love stories … and the psychology beyond beautiful relationships… i’ve saw a nice joke on social media.
It says that … Jim and Paula met on the beach on … Maldives.
They started to talk.
… and talk … and talk … and talk.
They liked each other.
Obviously being in love … he propose her to marry him.
And … like in any beautiful love story … she said … yes.
Right after than … Jim says to her … “Listen to me …. from now on … i will call you … Eve.”
“But why?!” … she replies.
“Because … you’re the first woman from my life”.
She smiles … continuing ironically … “Ok then … my dear.
I will call you Peugeot.”
“But why?!” … he asks intrigued.
“Because … you’re number … 206”
I’ve smiled … ironically also … reading the joke.
But that is … most certainly … a real case scenario … especially … nowadays.
Men and women … from all around the world … because of the internet … end up having lots, lots of short relationships.
And the question is … how can be a relationship between a man and a woman … if one of the partners already had tens or even … hundreds of other partners?!
It is … a good path to follow …. especially for the one who didn’t really experienced so much in life?!
Maybe … yes.
Maybe … no.
But … most certainly we meet in life … not who we want … but who we need to meet.
The partner … that has a past with lots of relationships … knows indeed a lot about how really is functioning the connection between a man and a woman.
Knows to connect.
Knows … the psychology beyond relationships.
But … forgot what means … to have a special connection.
Totally forgot those feelings … experienced at the beginning of life.
A relationship …. is just a relationship.
They know to connect.
But also …. know to practice the detachment and the art of disconnecting from souls.
And a person … who didn’t really experienced life …
relationships … has the opportunity to learn … from such a partner … like from a guru.
But … the differences between them … is a great disadvantage.
Unfortunately … for the relationship itself … cause they don’t feel with the same intensity … all what is going on.
So … they don’t really synchronise.
Into the end …. the sensation of being on a pathless path … is more and more dominant.
… for both of them.
But … maybe they really needed to have such an experience.
Then … accept the disconnection.
Accept all … as a lesson of life.
And …. dream of a better future.
… but with someone else.
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